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Falling victim to bogus marriage deals
Falling victim to bogus marriage deals Mustafa Al Zarooni / 18 September 2013 Today, Khaleej Times explores two separate issues facing Emirati society and the modern family nucleus in the UAE. In one article, we explore the issue of high numbers of Emirati men being lured — through money or trickery — into marrying foreign woman, who then use the marriages as a gravy train. In a separate story, a son who was taken away from his mother at a young age and neglected by his father is fighting to stop the courts from imposing mandatory monthly payments he must pay his reluctant parent. The man argues his father did not raise him properly, leaving him to seek out his mother — only to discover they did not speak the same language. Emirati youth being lured into contract marriages by foreign women who only seek UAE residence visa initially but entwine them in financial commitments after bearing babies Emirati youths are increasingly falling victim to bogus marriage deals proposed by smart expatriate women to obtain a permanent residence visa or UAE passport in exchange for money — or even through a fake love story. In these instances, matters are complicated even further when the women have a child. Several lawyers who spoke to Khaleej Times have recounted the phenomenon, most of which follow similar lines. One such story involves a young Emirati man who travelled abroad, where he met a young woman working as a waitress in a restaurant. Upon discovering he was a UAE national, she proposed marriage for three annual installments of Dh20,000 so that she could obtain a residence visa. Initially, the naive young man agreed to the idea. He first consulted some friends if this marriage is legal under UAE laws or not and he was advised that the UAE authorities are keeping a watch on this kind of fictitious marriage, and he might risk two months’ jail term and his “wife’s” deportation. When the Emirati man heard that, he rejected the woman’s proposal. Not giving up as the dream to come to work in the UAE had obsessed her mind, the woman contacted the man again and asked him what would be the problem if the marriage would be real and it would not cost him a penny. She told him he would be, instead, paid Dh60,000 plus a friend he could sleep with without the compunction of committing a sin since she would be his legal wife under the Islamic laws too. She assured him that she would bear even the rent of where they would be living, and affirmed that after the deal expired, he could divorce her whenever he wanted after she could get a job to shift the residence visa on it. This was a deal he thought he could benefit from as he would get a friend to have unpaid sex with, as she would be his wife legally, although it would be a secret from his family. Adding to that, he would receive Dh20,000 every year. So how could one refuse such an attractive deal like that? They made the deal and the girl accompanied her husband after she paid him the first installment (Dh20,000) agreed upon. She lived with him for over a year and a half and did not ask him for any money. At the end of the first year of marriage, she paid him the second payment (Dh20,000). She tried all the time to conceive a baby from him which happened after that period of marriage. She kept this matter secret and did not inform him that she got pregnant. Then she told him that she did not love him anymore and sought divorce. Once she gave birth to the baby, the man divorced her, which is when the troubles began. In the beginning of the third year, the woman broke her words and did not pay him the last payment (Dh20,000). Moreover, she sued him for being the father of her child and she won a court ruling which ordered the man to pay his ex-wife the rent for a good house for her and her son. The court also ordered him to provide his ex-wife with a car, a chauffeur and a housemaid as well as monthly child support and alimony, plus a permanent residence visa to take care of her Emirati son. The Dh40,000 the Emirati man collected is much less than what he had been ordered to pay the woman. Indeed, he was easily cheated. Emirati lawyer Ali Al Abadi clarified that he has handled tens of such cases across the country. Such cases usually end with a woman receiving a deferred dowry, while some others collect Muta’ah alimony along with a monthly alimony plus a house, a housemaid, and a chauffeur and a car. Al Abadi called upon Emirati youth to know their rights and not to go according to their feelings and desires as there are a lot of women who yearn for an easy catch which guarantees them a decent life in a country like the UAE. – malzarooni@khaleejtimes.com Lawyers call for stricter rules Lawyer Jasim Al Naqbi pointed out that there are two ways of fraud in such a case, first of which is that the marriage could be false. False marriage means the marriage is only on contracts not factual. Based on the marriage contract, the papers are submitted to the Naturalisation and Residency Department in order to issue a residence visa or even a passport for the foreign wife. “In such circumstances, if proven, the Naturalisation and Residency Department files a lawsuit against the Emirati husband,” Al Naqbi added. The second fraudulent way is an official marriage and giving birth to babies which help a non-Emirati woman to be eligible to alimony and child support over more than 20 years in addition to a residence visa and other benefits if a foreign wife bears a child from the Emirati husband. Al Naqbi said that the general Directorate of Residency and Foreigners Affairs has placed stricter measures regarding issuing a UAE passport to foreign wives married to Emirati men. Earlier, a non-Emirati wife married to an Emirati man and wants to get a UAE passport should spend three years after marriage in the country till she could apply for a UAE passport and citizenship. “Now, the measures have been changed. The time period has been extended to five years, with another stipulation that she should have kids from her husband, along with other procedural measures.” Al Naqbi said he was for not allowing Emirati men to marry foreign women as, some countries have banned their national men from marrying foreign women except under some exceptional and reasonable circumstances. He said that some local institutions stipulate that their local employees should obtain an approval before planning to marry a foreign woman. That measure has also been taken in some neighboring countries as any citizen there willing to tie the knot with a non-citizen woman must arrange for an approval from the Ministry of Interior in these countries. Meanwhile, lawyer Adnan Obaid Al Sha’ali clarified that these malpractices result from a weak legal culture and religious restraint on some youths who are lured into the financial attractions and do not know the problems they would be facing in the future for such practices which contradict Islam, and the customs and traditions. They may also hurt the homeland. Al Sha’ali called for inculcating the legal and religious culture, which could curb such malpractices, in the next generation through the educational curricula and launching awareness campaigns. malzarooni@khaleejtimes.com Man tries to force support from neglected son Staff Reporter An Abu Dhabi father has asked the courts to compel his son to financially support him, while the son has refused citing a bad upbringing. While one of the greatest transgressions in Islam is to disobey one’s parents, it is a different situation where the father has exhibited cruel, aggressive or negligent behaviour. Such a case happened here, resulting in a tug-of-war between a father and son over financial support and parental negligence. The father, through legal channels, wants his son to financially support him, but the latter has refused claiming that his father had abandoned and neglected him and deprived him of his mother since he was a baby. The father, who is insolvent with multiple wives, recently stood next to his son in front of the counsellor at the Family Guidance Division of the Abu Dhabi Judicial Department, shouted, cursed and accusing his son of being disobedient for refusing to support him. In his appeal, the man said his son was wealthy and holding a post with a high salary. According to court documents, the young man told the court: “This man doesn’t deserve the Dh300 you deduct from my salary to give to him. So, how come he is asking for more?” He said he was not a disobedient son, but his father had been cruel to him since he was six-month-old, when he took him from his mother and sent her back to her homeland. The father took the boy to another country where he put him under the custody of his second wife. The second wife raised him along with his half brothers and sisters despite being poor. The boy remained in his stepmother’s homeland until she decided to join her husband — his father — in the UAE. He was seven at the time, and able to understand what was going on. The son said after the move, his life became harder, as his father not only denied him admission to school and his right to education, but he used to beat him up after consuming alcohol. He said his father also used to talk about the mother he did not know in abusive terms, and while he searched to find his mother, his father obstructed that search. The son testified that he left no stone unturned in looking for his mother, and asked whoever he knew to help find her. Eventually, he managed to get her address and details from some relatives. He bought an airline ticket and travelled to his mother’s country of origin, to meet the woman who gave birth to him. Once he reached the country, the meeting was warmhearted, but as the woman spoke only her mother tongue, he was not able to understand her or the half-brothers his mother had had after returning to her country and re-marrying. He found himself a stranger and returned to the woman who had raised him and treated him like her own child. The man said when he returned to the UAE, he decided to start a new life. He secured a job, joined a literacy school and later adult education school. After gaining academic qualifications, he was promoted but did not forget his stepmother, looking after both her and his half-siblings, pledging not to let them be deprived of an education as was his case. After he settled down, he got married, and promised himself not to let his small family suffer like him. When the father learned his son had become well off ,he asked him to help him financially. The son said he refused fearing that his father might spend the money on alcohol or get married to another woman who might give birth to more children he would neglect. The father complained to the court, demanding his son support him. The court then ordered the son to pay his father Dh300 every month. However, the father was not content and requested the amount be increased due to his debt and insolvency. The son was in the belief that his stepmother and his half brothers and sisters were the ones who deserve the money and assistance, and not his alcoholic and polygamous father. The dispute is still in court with no final decision taken yet. – news@khaleejtimes.com (This story is published in collaboration with the Abu Dhabi Judicial Department) Continue reading
India slaps 15 per cent duty on gold import
India slaps 15 per cent duty on gold import Issac John / 18 September 2013 India raised import duty on gold jewellery on Tuesday from 10 per cent to 15 per cent, a move that is expected to have immediate ramifications in the UAE, the most sought-after jewellery shopping centre for Non-Resident Indians (NRIs). India’s Ministry of Finance on Tuesday set duty on jewellery higher than the 10 per cent levied on raw gold in a move to protect the domestic jewellery industry. “To protect the interests of small artisans, the customs duty on articles of jewellery … is being increased,” the ministry said. The government has also curbed raw gold imports through measures including three duty hikes this year to a record 10 per cent. The Reserve Bank of India has put tight restrictions on importers that have sharply curtailed supplies. India imported gold jewellery worth $137.57 million in the four months from April to July this year — a fraction of overall bullion imports, which were $2.9 billion in July alone. For Dubai’s jewellery retailers, who have been hoping for a big sales boost with the advent of the festival season in India, the move came at the right time. Shamlal Ahmad, Managing Director International Operations, Malabar Gold, a leading jewellery chain in the GCC and India, said NRI consumers and local jewellery trade would stand to benefit from the raised duty as a substantial price gap has been building up between prices in the UAE and what the same would cost in India since New Delhi started to raise duty as part of a series of curbs to slash its widening current account gap and support a weak rupee. Precious metal analysts in Dubai said while Indian jewellery fabrication, which jumped by 25 per cent in the first half to almost 350 tonnes, will get a boost while it will also have positive implications on Gulf’s gold jewellery business with NRIs rushing in to exploit the more attractive price advantage here. Dubai’s tax-free status has made it one of the cheapest places to buy gold in the world. The hike in import duty on jewellery had been a demand from the industry to ensure the viability of the domestic jewellery manufacturing, and avoid imports of cheaper jewellery from the GCC, Thailand and Malaysia. All India Gems and Jewellery Trade Federation hailed the move as very positive for the local industry and hoped it will support the jewellery-manufacturing sector. — issacjohn@khaleejtimes.com Continue reading
Assad govt hails ‘victory’ in arms deal, troops attack
Assad govt hails ‘victory’ in arms deal, troops attack (Reuters) / 16 September 2013 Syria’s government hailed as a “victory” a Russian-brokered deal that has averted US strikes, while President Barack Obama defended a chemical weapons pact that the rebels fear has bolstered their enemy in the civil war. President Bashar Al Assad’s jets and artillery hit rebel suburbs of the capital again on Sunday in an offensive that residents said began last week when Obama delayed air strikes in the face of opposition from Moscow and his own electorate. France’s President Francois Hollande (R) takes part in a televised interview with French journalist Claire Chazal on French TF1 television channel’s prime-time evening news broadcast in Paris on September 15. -Reuters Speaking of the US-Russian deal, Syrian minister Ali Haidar told Moscow’s RIA news agency: “These agreements … are a victory for Syria, achieved thanks to our Russian friends.” Though not close to Assad, Ali was the first Syrian official to react to Saturday’s accord in Geneva by US Secretary of State John Kerry and Russian Foreign Minister Sergei Lavrov. Bridging an angry East-West rift over Syria, they agreed to back a nine-month UN programme to destroy Assad’s chemical arsenal. The deal has put off the threat of air strikes Obama made after poison gas killed hundreds of Syrians on August 21, although he has stressed that force remains an option if Assad reneges. US forces remain in position. Russia still opposes military action but now backs possible UN sanctions for non-compliance. French President Francois Hollande called for a UN resolution on Syria backed by the threat of punitive action to be voted by the end of this week. Hollande also said the option of military strikes must remain on the table. Kerry, visiting Israel, responded to widespread doubts about the feasibility of the “the most far-reaching chemical weapons removal ever” by insisting the plan could work. And he and Obama sought to reassure Israelis the decision to hold fire on Syria does not mean Iran can pursue nuclear weapons with impunity. Obama embraced the Syria disarmament proposal floated last week by Russian President Vladimir Putin after his plan for US military action hit resistance in Congress. Lawmakers feared an open-ended new entanglement in the Middle East and were troubled by the presence of Al Qaeda followers among Assad’s opponents. Obama dismissed critics of his quick-changing tactics on Syria for focusing on “style” not substance. And while thanking Putin for pressing his “client the Assad regime” to disarm, he chided Russia for questioning Assad’s guilt over the gas attack. Responding to concerns, notably in Israel, that a display of American weakness toward Assad could encourage his Iranian backers to develop nuclear weapons, Obama said Tehran’s nuclear programme was a “far larger issue” for him than Assad’s toxins. “They shouldn’t draw a lesson, that we haven’t struck, to think we won’t strike Iran,” he told ABC television, disclosing he had exchanged letters with Iran’s new president. “On the other hand, what they should draw from this lesson is that there is the potential of resolving these issues diplomatically.” Obama had no lack of critics, however, at home and abroad. REBELS DISMISS TALKS Syrian National Reconciliation Minister Ali said Syria welcomed the deal: “They have prevented a war against Syria by denying a pretext to those who wanted to unleash it.” He also echoed Kerry and Lavrov in saying it might help Syrians “sit round one table to settle their internal problems”. But rebels, calling the international focus on poison gas a sideshow, have dismissed talk the arms pact might herald peace talks and said Assad has stepped up an offensive with ordinary weaponry now that the threat of US air strikes has receded. A spokesman for the opposition Syrian National Coalition repeated that it wanted world powers to prevent Assad from using his air force, tanks and artillery on civilian areas. “Assad is effectively being rewarded for the use of chemical weapons,” Shadi Hamid of the Brookings Doha Centre wrote in the Atlantic magazine. “Now, he can get away with nearly anything – as long as he sticks to using good old conventional weapons.” International responses to the accord were also guarded. Western governments, wary of Assad and familiar with the years frustrated UN weapons inspectors spent in Saddam Hussein’s Iraq, noted the huge technical difficulties in destroying one of the world’s biggest chemical arsenals in the midst of civil war. Iran hailed a US retreat from “extremist behaviour” and welcomed its “rationality”. Israel said the deal would be judged on results. China, which like Russia opposes US readiness to use force against sovereign states, was glad of the renewed role for the UN Security Council, where Beijing too has a veto. The Syrian government has formally told the United Nations it will adhere to a treaty banning chemical weapons. The US-Russian framework agreement calls for the United Nations to enforce the removal of existing stockpiles by the middle of next year. BOMBARDMENTS Air strikes, shelling and ground attacks on Damascus suburbs on Sunday backed up statements from Assad’s supporters and opponents that he is back on the offensive after a lull in which his troops took up defensive positions, expecting US strikes. “It’s a clever proposal from Russia to prevent the attacks,” said an Assad supporter from the port city of Tartous. An opposition activist in Damascus echoed disappointment among rebel leaders: “Helping Syrians would mean stopping the bloodshed,” he said. Poison gas is estimated to have killed only hundreds of the more than 100,000 dead in a war that has also forced a third of the population to flee their homes since 2011. Russia says it is not specifically supporting Assad – though it has provided much of his weaponry. Its concern, it says, is to prevent Assad’s Western and Arab enemies from imposing their will on a sovereign state. And Moscow, like Assad, highlights the role of al Qaeda-linked Islamists among the rebel forces. Their presence, and divisions among Assad’s opponents in a war that has inflamed sectarian passions across the region, have tempered Western support. Al Qaeda leader Ayman Al Zawahri urged followers on Sunday not to cooperate with other Syrian rebels. The opposition Syrian National Coalition elected a moderate Islamist on Saturday as prime minister of an exile government – a move some members said was opposed by Western powers who want to see an international peace conference bring the warring sides together to produce a compromise transitional administration. Previous attempts to revive peace efforts begun last year at Geneva have foundered on the bitter hostilities among Syrians. Continue reading
